The candle lighting ceremony is an incredible opportunity for the Bar or Bat Mitzvah boy or girl to honor those closest to them who have made not only the day so special, but their lives so exceptional. While the rest of the day is centered around the Bar\/Bat Mitzvah and their accomplishments (and rightfully so),\u00a0 the candle lighting ceremony really is a unique moment to pay tribute to the significant people in your life. This is why it is so important that along with the poem or short anecdote you read during the ceremony, you choose candle lighting songs that are personal and showcase your connection to the people that you are lighting the candle for. The songs can be chosen for a variety of reasons. You had a shared experience listening to that song, the song reminds you of that person or group, or you love a particular song and it fits perfectly with how those honorees relate to your life.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n
At a certain point during the luncheon or party, a large display of candles will be brought out to the center of the floor. This can either be a decoration in and of itself or candles on top of a birthday cake. The Bar\/Bat Mitzvah will give short speeches (typically rhyming) to a person or a group of people and ask them to come up to the display and light a candle together. While the honoree is walking from his\/her seat up to light the candle, a song is played. There isn\u2019t a set number of candles you need to light — it\u2019s very subjective — and depends upon how you delegate the various groups but 13 candles for 13 years is standard plus one for good luck. The candle lighting ceremony ends when the Bar\/Bat Mitzvah blows out all of the candles.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The candle lighting ceremony will undoubtedly be emotional to all those involved, but it also puts a stop to the DJ and the dancing for a solid bit of time during the Bar\/Bat Mitzvah. It\u2019s prudent to keep the speeches short and sweet and to try and plan for a time where you won\u2019t abruptly halt the flow of the celebration. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
There are a variety of amalgamations to make 13 different groups of people. You might have a lot of aunts, uncles, and cousins. So, you can choose to have each side of the family come up to light a candle or separate the groups by aunts and uncles and then have all of the cousins come up and light a candle. Friends can all come up to light a candle as one big group or you can divide them up by how they know the Bar\/Bat Mitzvah (camp friends, family friends, school friends, etc.) or separate the boys and the girls. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Candle in the Wind – Elton John<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I Will Always Love You -Whitney Houston <\/p>\n\n\n\n
I Will Remember You – Sarah McLaughlin<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Memory- Barbara Streisand (Theme from Cats) <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Memories \u2013 Elvis Presley <\/p>\n\n\n\n
He Lives in You – The Lion King Broadway Soundtrack<\/p>\n\n\n\n
For Good – Wicked<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Angel \u2013 Sarah McLachlan<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Somewhere Over the Rainbow – Israel Kamakawiwo\u2019ole<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You\u2019ll Be in My Heart – Phil Collins <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Unforgettable \u2013 Natalie & Nat Cole<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I Was Here – Beyonce\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Everlasting Love – Gloria Estefan<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The Best – Tina Turner<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I Got You Babe – Sonny & Cher<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Love and Marriage – Frank Sinatra<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Through the Years – Kenny Rogers<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You’re the Inspiration – Chicago<\/p>\n\n\n\n
All-Star \u2013 Smash Mouth<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Anything You Can Do I Can Do Better – Ethel Merman<\/p>\n\n\n\n
One Call Away – Charlie Puth<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Together Forever – Rick Astley<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Brothers<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Bad Boys – Inner Circle<\/p>\n\n\n\n Let’s Hear It For The Boy – Denise Williams<\/p>\n\n\n\n Macho Man – Village Man<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sisters<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Dancing Queen – Abba <\/p>\n\n\n\n Girls Just Wanna Have Fun – Cindy Lauper<\/p>\n\n\n\n Just A Girl – No Doubt \u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sunrise, Sunset – Fiddler on the Roof<\/p>\n\n\n\n All You Need Is Love – Beatles <\/p>\n\n\n\n Forever Young – Rod Stewart <\/p>\n\n\n\n La Chaim (To Life) – Fiddler on the Roof <\/p>\n\n\n\n How Sweet It Is To Be Loved By You – James Taylor <\/p>\n\n\n\n Because You Loved Me \u2013 Celine Dion<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sunrise, Sunset – Fiddler on the Roof<\/p>\n\n\n\n All You Need Is Love – Beatles <\/p>\n\n\n\n Forever Young – Rod Stewart <\/p>\n\n\n\n La Chaim (To Life) – Fiddler on the Roof <\/p>\n\n\n\n How Sweet It Is To Be Loved By You – James Taylor <\/p>\n\n\n\n Because You Loved Me \u2013 Celine Dion<\/p>\n\n\n\n Can You Feel The Love Tonight \u2013 Elton John<\/p>\n\n\n\n The Addams Family Theme Song<\/p>\n\n\n\n Celebration – Kool & The Gang<\/p>\n\n\n\n We Are Family – Sister Sledge<\/p>\n\n\n\n What I Like About You – The Romantics<\/p>\n\n\n\n I Can’t Help Myself (Sugar Pie, Honey Bunch) – The Four Tops<\/p>\n\n\n\n With a Little Help From My Friends \u2013 Beatles<\/p>\n\n\n\n Born To Be Wild – Steppenwolf <\/p>\n\n\n\n I’ll Be There For You – Rembrants (Theme from Friends)<\/p>\n\n\n\n That\u2019s What Friends Are For – Dionne Warwick & Friends <\/p>\n\n\n\n We Go Together \u2013 Cast of Grease <\/p>\n\n\n\n We\u2019re All in This Together-High School Musical<\/p>\n\n\n\n Who Let The Dogs Out – Baha Men <\/p>\n\n\n\n Friend Like Me \u2013 Aladdin Soundtrack\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cMy Life Would Suck Without You\u201d \u2013 Kelly Clarkson or Glee Cast<\/p>\n\n\n\n Whether you are having a socially distanced Bar\/Bat Mitzvah or simply wish to include everyone in the candle lighting ceremony, there are other ways that you can honor the people that are there with the Bar\/Bat Mitzvah on their special day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If you would like to include every party guest, you can separate the attendees into larger groups and have everyone stand up at their seat instead of coming forward. You can place candles and matches or battery operated candles at every person’s seat and by the time the Bar\/Bat Mitzvah has lit the final candle, every guest will have as well and the room will be filled with light. <\/p>\n\n\n\n You can also have each of the honorees pour grape juice or wine into a wine glass to “fill up your cup”. Sand ceremonies have also grown in popularity as many see it as better, socially distanced alternative.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Did you enjoy the post about candle lighting songs? There are more posts filled with B’nai Mitzvah content<\/a><\/strong> on the BMA blog!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Candle Lighting Song Suggestions: A Complete List The candle lighting ceremony is an incredible opportunity for the Bar or Bat Mitzvah boy or girl to honor those closest to them who have made not only the day so special, but their lives so exceptional. While the rest of the day is centered around the Bar\/Bat …<\/p>\nSongs for Grandparents<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Songs for Aunts, Uncles, and Cousins<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Songs for Friends<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Candle Lighting Ceremony Alternatives<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n